Two suitors vying for the hand of a bride-to-be showcase their skills in various gamesAccording to local legend, the groom-selecting festival originated from the story of General Le Hoa, who fought against the Eastern Han invaders during the era of the Trung Sisters. She was subsequently bestowed the title “Nu Su Anh Phong” by the Trung Sisters (Hai Ba Trung)”.
Upon receiving her title and returning to Duong Yen village, she was warmly welcomed by the locals and was later revered as the village’s Tutelary Deity. Accordingly, every year on the 2nd day of the second lunar month, the people hold a festival to commemorate her immense contributions to Duong Yen village. Over generations, this ritual has evolved into a unique cultural feature that defines the identity of the region along the Red River…
The winning bridegroom, dressed in a new outfit, walked alongside the female general to meet the villagers, closing the groom-selecting contestThe festival’s appeal lies in its symbolic contests that showcase quick wit, dexterity, and adaptability. Folk performances, accompanied by the lively beat of festival drums, draw large crowds of enthusiastic participants and spectators, creating a vibrant atmosphere filled with laughter. For the people of Duong Yen village, this is not merely a traditional festival but also an opportunity for younger generations to deepen their understanding of the village’s history and the stories linked to their roots.
The profound value of the groom-selecting festival lies not only in its entertainment aspect but also in its significance for traditional education. Through the various performances, young people are reminded of admirable human qualities: intelligence, courage, a sense of responsibility and family values. These values have become cultural standards passed down from generation to generation, helping to preserve the compassionate way of life characteristic of village communities. Between the pace of modern life, the groom-selecting festival also enriches the spiritual lives of the people. This is an occasion for villagers to meet and gather, to reflect on traditions together, and to strengthen the bonds of neighborliness. The festive atmosphere revives cultural memories of a rural area that is changing day by day yet still preserves its traditional character.
In recent years, local authorities and residents have placed greater emphasis on preserving and promoting the value of the festival. The groom-selection festival is organized in a well-structured manner and linked to the promotion of local cultural tourism. Visitors come not only to witness unique performances but also to gain insight into the cultural life of the suburban community. Consequently, various local services such as cuisine, traditional craft products, and community-based tourism services also benefit, contributing to the improvement of residents' material well-being. The festival also serves as an opportunity to raise awareness and encourage the public to effectively implement the Party’s guidelines and the State’s policies and laws, as well as to foster a new cultural lifestyle within residential communities. The residents of Duong Yen village take pride in both preserving their traditions and contributing to the development of a hometown that is increasingly civilized and prosperous. Amidst the rapid urbanization of the capital, the groom selecting festival in Duong Yen village retains its enduring vitality; the sound of festival drums each spring serves as a reminder for future generations to honor their roots and cherish the cultural values that have nurtured the souls of so many generations.
Thus, the groom selection festival is not merely a distinctive folk tradition; it is also a symbol of community spirit and a testament to the belief in life’s noble values. From a small village on the outskirts of Hanoi captital, this cultural practice continues to spread, enriching the nation’s tapestry of traditional culture./.
